Are You Ready for Hysterectomy?

Before you go in for your hysterectomy, make sure you are really ready for it. No, I'm not talking about your specific symptoms or your condition; I'm talking about mental and emotional preparation. The removal of your uterus is huge. It's a big deal. It's saying good-bye to a part of you, and don't underestimate the emotions of that.

There is a certain amount of emotion that accompanies hysterectomy, but being prepared can help. Here are a few things you should be clear about:


1. Are you absolutely 100% sure that your childbearing days are behind you?

This is a biggie. Before you remove your womb, make sure you are at peace with the idea of never having children. Even if you already have kids, this is a big decision. Are you sure you don't want to have more kids? Are you sure your family is complete? The time to face this is before you go under the knife. Once done, this surgery cannot be undone!

2. Are you sure hysterectomy is your only option?

Don't get me wrong: I'm not one of those anti-hysterectomy folks. I don't believe that all hysterectomies could be avoided. But, I've had a hysterectomy.... it's major surgery. I would hate to see anyone go through the pain if it could be avoided. Make sure you research your options, get second and third opinions, and make sure hysterectomy is really what you need.

3. Is this your decision-- or your doctor's?

Like it or not, there are doctors who prescribe surgery as a first line of defense. There are doctors who make you feel there are no options. And there are doctors who push, rush, and bully their patients into decisions. The decision to remove your uterus is not one to take lightly; it's not a choice to make on the fly. It should be your decision, and no one else's. Sure, you should get your doctor's medical opinion and you should discuss with your spouse, friends, and family, but in the end, it's your body and your decision. You, and you alone, live with the repercussions.

4. Do you know your hysterectomy options?

There are different types of hysterectomies, and each has its own recovery time, hospital stays, pros, and cons. Understand the options. Ask why your doctor is recommending a certain method over others. Before you even get close to the hospital, discuss your doctor's views on keeping the ovaries, tubes, and cervix. This is your surgery-- personalize it to your views, your life, and your condition.

Hysterectomy is rough, but being mentally and emotionally prepared makes it much smoother.

There is life after hysterectomy... and it's good. Enjoy!