Connect With Others Who've Had Hysterectomy

When I was considering having hysterectomy, I turned to one friend above everyone else. Not because she's smarter or kinder or a better listener (although she is smart, kind, and understanding), but because she's been there. She had a hysterectomy at a young age, for similar reasons... and she lived to tell about it! Even better, she's living a quality life now, far better than before the surgery. Without her support and her story, I might never have been able to face this surgery.

If you don't actually know anyone in real life who has had a hysterectomy, turn to the internet. There is a wonderful community of women online, all sharing their experiences. Friendships form fast in these forums, and the support is invaluable. I urge you to jump out there and take part in a hysterectomy forum! Here are some to try:

• Hyster Sisters. This is a wonderful resource! If you visit only one hysterectomy site (besides this one, of course), it should be Hyster Sisters. You'll find articles, a store, and a warm, closeknit forum.
• Hyster Hangout. Hyster Hangout features a message board of women facing hysterectomy, as well as women who have already had surgery.
• Hysterectomy Recovery Room. This forum is in its infancy, and there are few posts. While this might not be the best place to go for advice, it could be excellent if you're looking for a smaller, more intimate community.

There is life after hysterectomy... and it's good. Enjoy!